You have so many erudite and eloquent followers DJ that I am a bit concerned about messing up your wonderful response column. But I am nothing if not bold, so here goes. Your daughter sounds wonderful and truthful. I love truth and honesty. We all believe what we want to believe and whilst I am trying to let go of as many beliefs as I can, I have decided to cling to the one that tells me this is indeed all a cosmic joke and when we die, we will all get to have a good laugh when that punchline is revealed. A😁🙏💚