Well done, you. But I have to say, as an autistic, that I can't understand why she didn't spell it out for you sooner. Probably just me, but I can't understand half the stuff neurotypicals "say" unless they make it clear. I would have told you that I didn't WANT you to WANT to do the dishes. I would have told you I wanted you to want to help make my life easier. I still can't understand why people don't just say what they want. But I appreciate I am wired differently. A🙏