Thank you so much Maria. I really appreciate your time and lovely response. I hope this next bit makes you laugh . . . i read your line that said no-one is correct when they say what it means to be on the spectrum. And, because I am autistic and think very black and white . . . i thought: well that's not right! Because I have written very clearly what "on the spectrum" means and I am completely correct 😂😂😂. i do think we are both in agreement though: I say that being on the spectrum means you are autistic (and you can't be a bit autistic - that will fall under the neurodiversity label) AND it means that every single person who is autistic will present differently - if you have met one autistic person, you have met one autistic person. 😂 Hearts to you and your wonderful support. A💚💚💚💚