Thank you so much for sharing your deeply personal story with me, Peter and my heart goes out to you and your whole family.. I appreciate your honesty. I went to Al-anon because my mother was an alcoholic. It killed her when she was just 47. I shall indeed let go if this does not work for Edward. Any future rehab will be what the state or charities provide. I shall let go. Your story of people spending so much will help me, should that be the route I have to go. I honour your journey as you honour mine, and wish us both the strength to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference. With sincere gratitude for your kind message, A🙏💚