Thank you Nat. I did a long reply to Philip last night and if it wasn't cheating and rude, I'd copy and paste a lot of it here! You have made me feel so much better about posting this article. I think often when I write, I am trying to gift something to others (laughter mostly) whereas i was definitely writing this one for ME, and because I needed something. You, and others, have all gifted me that thing i was seeking. And I am ever grateful. You are the champion of gifting yourself in the comments section. And I say it again: if there were rewards for comments, I'd nominate you for the Nobel Prize. And I'd have a bet on you winning. And would win. A💚💕🤗