Sometimes you can say something or you can write a story and it can have a profound effect on somebody else in ways you cannot imagine. I was all of 4 years old when i pooped my pants but was made to feel such shame for it that i became a medical problem for my parents in that i think i got scared to go and constipation became an issue. The fact that you have felt able to talk about this, the fact that your brother wrote a poem !! about it. Well. I feel healed :). I shall probably come back tomorrow and delete this of course! But thank you A🙏💚