Oh, Sadie, I am so sorry you, too, are struggling with a child in recovery. And overjoyed that what I have written resonates. I know it isn't for everyone, and I didn't think it was for me (I don't like the word God or the 12-step programme!) but I have found so much acceptance and relief from joining the Al-Anon programme. Whatever path you choose to take, I so hope you will take care of yourself -put your own oxygen mask on first. Sending love, A💚🙏💞