Oh dear. I suspect I have not been paying enough attention to this. I am careful to avoid clunkiness but suspect I may have fallen into the trap of thinking something reads easily . . . while ignoring the fact that a grammarian would get "caught up" by my improper use of "they". I do think the new non-binary use of it muddies the waters and suspect the next generation along will have no issues around it. Thought provoking piece, Jay. Thanks. A🙏