It makes me a little sad that you had to learn that lesson in such a hard way. I'm going to try and look on the positive side and hope that in learning to recognise red flags, and in learning to create healthy boundaries, you have been spared far worse lessons in the long run. It is hard to admit when we have made mistakes, but by writing them, we can help others avoid the same pitfalls. So, it is brave and kind of you to share this story. Wishing you abundant healthy connections with those who are worthy of your good nature. A🙏💚