I would be too, and not least because of the dangers of accidental incest. Anyone conceived via donor sperm or egg could fall in love with a half-sibling without any knowledge of their shared genes. (The Westermarck effect means this is suppressed when siblings are brought up together, but does not apply if siblings are brought up separately). Thus I would caution anyone conceived via donor sperm to check for possible matches with anyone they fall in love with. The risk is higher than the statistics may suggest.
I would be more than apprehensive.
Thank you for shining light on another important topic, Natalie.
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PS: got my plantains, just waiting for them to ripen :)