I can't think of a single occasion where I have disagreed with you, James. And if I did, I would look within to see what belief i was holding that I needed to let go of. I, too, can hurt people's feelings by accident. I love honesty, including honest criticism and find it hard sometimes to understand that others feel differently and don't appreciate the potential "gold" that is there if they are willing to put aside emotion and learn from the things that push their buttons.