I am so glad you have shared this Toni and I very much hope that writing it has made you feel lighter. I am so shocked at what you have had to endure. There are no excuses for the behaviour of all those involved - the one who made the toxic positivity jibe, Tracey, Steve and especially rat bastard. I am so glad your father was there to offer support at the time. All I can say is that you now have a whole army of readers here on Medium who have got your back. I too am in your corner. A🙏💚