Eleven is too young too. I went to a Boarding School Survivors workshop once and there was one girl there who had only been sent for a year at the age of Fifteen. Trauma is trauma and she was still traumatised over a decade later. So glad you hear you have kept your kids close to home. When i hear the upper class response of "It didn't do me any harm" i could weep. Thanks for taking the time to respond. It means a lot to me. 🙏💚