Dear Josie, I have been reading the series. I shall go back and read again. In the end, we all have to let go of everything i think: all the labels, all the attachments. "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose". But while you are here, and if you are searching for a label or identity, then i can tell you that, to me, you are a gifted writer and poet. You are enough. Be kind to yourself.