Charlotte, thank you for changing your background colour so I could read this. What you have written here is brilliant: you have managed to put into easily understandable words everything that I wish my husband could read when this happens to me. Your comprehensive and wonderfully insightful article deserves a wider audience, and you deserve thousands of followers.

I don’t like to give advice and Medium is awash with articles on how to gain reads and followers. But my friend Natalie just wrote this, and you may find it helpful: https://medium.com/@natalieandherboys/what-i-wish-i-knew-about-medium-when-i-first-started-and-no-one-told-me-d22c15cd7d2f

It is also worth thinking about submitting an About Me story here:

https://medium.com/about-me-stories/submit-your-story-53edfdf6527

In kindness, A💚🙏