And just when we were getting along so well, you go on put a curse on me! I get the imagination thing, but we may have to agree to disagree on this one. I think there is a universal truth that the things we would choose for ourselves would never involve pain or heartbreak. And yet . . . it is these experiences that tend to have an effect on soul level.

In another example, I find it fascinating that every year, celebrities who do the jungle programme are subjected to extreme discomfort - appalling living conditions, near starvation and put through dreadful, frightening experiences. Without fail, each and every one says it has been the best experience of their life. Food for thought. I would far rather sit with someone who has experienced pain and heartbreak than someone who has lived only a life of pleasure and luxury. Take that money I recently lost. I would NEVER have chosen to go through the horrendous experience that lead to the loss - and yet it has made me so much more appreciative of what I do have (left!). So, no, I'm not going to wish all your dreams come true. I wish more for you than that. And trust that your soul will thank me at the end 😊